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About this time last year I posted about "The Picasso Solution" where I mentioned that I am privileged to teach art to small-ish and middle-sized people, while at the same time developing incredibly tolerance for mess not of my own making as well as employing my own creativity in developing strategies for encouraging the small people to clean it up. I also get to enjoy the zingers of wisdom young artists present beautifully and matter-of-factly. Simple statements of the obvious, that grown-ups have forgotten they knew.
(Which brings us to my current soapbox topic - perfectionism. Don't engage in it. Just don't. It stifles creativity, stresses you out, makes you feel ill, encourages you to engage in unhelpful and unrealistic comparisons, and prevents you from fully enjoying your preferred creative pursuits and your wild and wonderful life . It so often stems from fear and stops you getting started. (I'm sorry, Perfectionist Readers, I know you're out there, clutching your (metaphorical) perfect pearls. I know this is scary for you. Not suggesting lowering standards to the extent of living in chaos, getting fired, or ignoring responibilities. Just gently suggesting that you spend your energy wisely. Prioritise. I know "spoonies" who get it, without having much choice in the matter, but it's not just a mantra for those diagnosed with chronic unwellness or ongoing impacts on ability.
Be as kind to yourself as you would to others. Just the way you art is actually perfect.
How do you exercise your creative brain? Are you a "recovering perfectionist"? Want to have a chat about it in the comments?
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